Are you actually feeling very bored and tired of the same old bedroom routine? Are you feeling that your sex life has become boring and bland? Don’t worry, there are some ways to increase the rush and feel fresh all over again. Yes, it is true that not every single night of your life can be spectacular when it comes to sex, but do you ever find yourself in a sexual rut? May be you just need something to spice things up a bit!
Don’t worry or feel very blah about it because you are not the only one feeling that. It is the fact that every couple goes through that “boring sex” phase where you are getting off. That is because it becomes a habit after a while. It becomes more like a routine where you might just do it on one day of the week and then get over it, don’t you? Don’t worry anymore because we are definitely going to make things more interesting.
It doesn’t matter on the personal sex style that you have, because you always have a way to spice up something new and fun that you can try with your partner. So, we have come up with a set of things – Here are some of the most important and fun things you can try out and get creative in bed with your partner. These things and ways to get creative in bed will get you kinked up and BAM you will be back to your normal self!
Things You Can Do To Get Creative In Bed
1Light Bondage
Not many know this, but you can spice things up with just a little light bondage. But, remember that you don’t have to be the one to pull out the whips and chains but you can have a lot of fun and flair by blindfolding your lover or handcuffing him to the bed. It is even better if you can take turns on this. You would like it if he can be the dominant one once in a while. It could be true that most of you might have your own preferred role in bed (dominant or submissive). But if you can maybe change that up then you can really help each other in exploring the new sides of your sexuality and have more fun.
2Kamasutra fun
Of course we are sure that you have heard of the Kama Sutra (that ancient book with all the cool sexual positions), right? You can definitely do yourself a favor and go get a copy from your local bookstore. You can try to randomly flip open a page and see if you and your lover can get into that position. It could sometimes be quite tricky, but don’t forget that it is sexy, fun, and it is not always possible (which definitely makes things interesting).
3Whipped cream
Food and sex always go hand in hand, no matter what. No, we are not talking about eating and having. It is always about using the food product as an initializer to have sex. You can try to definitely get a can of whipped cream and spray it where you want him to lick it. It will initiate the sex and be fun.
4Massages with hot oils
Scented and massage oils are always a pretty amazing way out there because some of them are heated oils and some of them are flavored oils. In fact, it is also possible that they taste great (usually like cinnamon) and they heat up your lover’s skin when you blow on it. If you know the right kind of spots and if you hit the right spot you can experience that this little trick will really blow your guy’s mind!
5Vibrator fun
Yes, this could be something that you may not think of because contrary to what you might think, vibrators are not only work for women. Don’t think that you can just use it and play by yourself because you can also use them on him. You might not know this but a vibrator on the lowest setting placed against your man’s scrotum as you give him oral sex will send him to sexual heights that he has probably never even imagined.
It is definitely possible that it is a sensation of overload. You can lure him to also let him use the vibrator on you for a change. This will help you rise the level of foreplay and makes the sex last longer for both of you.
6Role playing trick
Well, if you like to do drama, think of this – Have you ever wanted to have sex with a sexy pirate? Do you think that your guy will ever jokingly call you a cute beer wench? You can have fun if you can delve headlong into this idea and let your dramatic flair have some fun! You can definitely make sure when we say that role playing is a great way to spice things up in the bedroom and have fun with each other. It will also help you in creating some new inside jokes between you and him.
Think of it like this, when he goes up to you and says “Helloooooo, nurse!” in public, wouldn’t it be fun and interesting because only you will know that it has everything to do with that naughty game of doctor you played the previous night?
-Pavithra Ravi
