If you have been thinking that women over sixty should be sitting in a docile old age home, wearing unfashionable clothes and feeding their grandchildren, then are totally judging it all wrong. Who says women over sixty don’t have sexual feelings? If you are over sixty and are feeling sensual, it is totally normal. In fact, it is proven that women over a particular age have more maturity towards sex and see the bright part in having sex. They still have the yearning, intimacy and are full of love to give. There are many reasons why sex after sixty can be a total bliss. Here are some reasons, why you should consider sex after sixty.
Reasons Why Sex Over Sixty Is Fun And Important
1Pressure-free
When you are sixty, you are either retired, or working with a firm or at a place that lets you work on a part time basis or just at home. So, you don’t have the expected pressure that younger women would face. You don’t have to bother to pick up your kids from the school or you wouldn’t be the one worrying about running between work and home. You have all the time in the world, which means, you are spending quality time with your loved one may it be your husband, your significant other or with a date. Sex isn’t a pressure and doesn’t have to be a job anymore. You can enjoy what you are doing without thinking of what to cook or what to get up to the next day.
2Lesser fear
Older women don’t have to feel scared about certain things when it comes to sex. You don’t have to keep counting on the days you get periods, pregnancy checks or about when you are ovulating because all of this is already over. Older women are much more confident when it comes to the inner self. They don’t feel the need to impress anyone and would be able to talk to their partners about what they would like to experience sexually.
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3More intimacy
Women over sixty look for more of intimacy than raw sex. Raw sex would not be your concern at all. You would have seen so much in life like loss, health issues, parent’s death, and love that you have experienced almost everything. All that matters right now to you is a lot of love in the sex that you are having.
4Independence
Let’s face it! Whether you are in a relationship with a person or not, you have the independence to try whatever you want. Who says exploring over sixty is a NO-NO? It sure is a yes and you have to experience everything you didn’t get to when you were young. Sex is not only about physical pleasure. It is much more of a mental and emotional connection. If you and your partner have the money and interest to explore more, go on a romantic or exotic honeymoon and spend a few days having fun.
5Connections
If you are a single sixty year old, finding men to date wouldn’t be a big difficulty at all. Women tend to shy when they have to socialize or have connections with other men. But, you are missing the point that you can actually discover much more than you expected. Socializing now isn’t a biggie at all. You have to just register in a dating site and answer a few questions and bam! You are done. Just wait and socialize with the right kind of person and you are through. Connecting with people wouldn’t be a big deal for you since you have seen so much in life.
Women over 60 tend to be more interesting than in their younger ages. You are still there, sexier than most young girls who can seek, offer and love other men. Try to love yourself first and it gets easier when you have to love someone else all over again. It is always best to talk to your doctor about your sexual health, life as a part of your health checkups. Staying in better shape as you grow older is one of the best ways to enhance your sexual self and enjoy.
It is always best to use condoms even if you are not in a monogamous relationship and dating new partners to practice safe sex. Though women over sixty are not prone to getting pregnant, you still are exposed to sexually transmitted infections. So try to practice safe sex and enjoy what the world has to offer you.
-Pavithra Ravi
