Every girl wants to know if her boyfriend truly loves her or not. Any girl would like to know if her boyfriend shares the same feelings because love is tricky. It’s hard to know what’s real and what is n’t when it comes to emotions. We are always looking for that reassurance that we are trusting the right person. You might panic if you don’t know what’s going inside his head. Your insecurities run away from you and you might end up self-sabotaging a relationship. Here are some signs he loves you truly.
Signs He Loves You Truly
1. Look in his Eyes
Eyes are one place, it’s hardest to lie from. Sometimes you might get scared, but if your man is in love, he will be there for you. He will look at you with a longing that will speak volumes about his true feelings. If he truly loves you, it will always appear in his eyes. Your man will give many signs he loves you truly but it is you who have to notice them.
2. He Remembers Your Talks
You might be thinking that he is not listening to what you are saying or ignoring you, but if he is in love he will listen to the stuff that actually counts. This means he will pay attention to special events in your life or names of people you mentioned. He might not seem to make a big deal now, but it will sink in and it comes out when you are least expected.
3. Giving More
In order for any relationship to work, you have to be giving. You cannot be stringent with your emotions. There has to be a surplus of goodwill and love in your relationship. His emotional generosity is a clear signal of his feelings for you.
4. He Accepts the Real You
One thing we all want more than anything else is to be seen and accepted the person we are. When he is in love, he will see things, about you, about the person you really are. Somethings you might not even recognize. He will see the good and the bad. Which means if you are not living up to who you are, your potential, your true character, your loved one should call you and let you know. Sometime love could be uncomfortable but it will make you better.
5. You Are His Priority
6. He Wants to Share Everything
If he is a music freak or loves to read books, he would like to show you his collection. He will take you, whichever event he goes. You might not find them fun or exciting, but they mean a lot to him. This is how men bond. Men bond by spending time with you. The most important thing is a sign of love that he wants you to participate in it.
7. He is Committed
This is every woman wants from a man. It can be in his words or a marriage proposal. Well, in the end, the only indication of a man’s commitment is his presence. If you see that he is in it with you and he is not quitting that is a big statement of his feelings. Especially during through tough times. Look, if you are a woman you will feel little anxious to save your relationship. But you can’t let that fears and insecurities sabotage that something which is really good.
They can easily get away from you and hit the panic button in your relationship. Ultimately a man’s love is a powerful force you will see it in his actions most of all. And if you don’t see it, then it is a sign he is not with you. You will see it in things he does for you as well as the caring effort he puts in the things he feels are important for you. Sometimes, even the feelings are not enough to make a relationship successful. You need to know the skills to create your own true romance with the man in your life.
8. He Introduces You to his Family
You know he loves you when he wants to introduce you to his family and friends. He also wants to meet the people who are important in your life. He will make sure to show his love and gain your trust by loving you more.
9. He Doesn’t Avoid Problems
A real man doesn’t run out when things get rough. And he also doesn’t bottles up his feelings until he explodes, either, if something is bothering him with the relationship, he brings it carefully and respectfully. He is comfortable talking through the issues he’s been having and will make a genuine effort to fix any underlying issue that’s been plaguing the relationship. He understands that even major problems don’t define the relationship. It’s how you both work through them that does.
10. He is Smart and Wise
The true measure of a man’s intelligence is not simply how smart he is, but what he does with his wisdom. He sees things from an objective point of view and is able to give you great advice in any situation you face. He puts himself in your shoes constantly so that he can understand exactly what you are going through and he doesn’t blow you off with half-hearted cliches. And you just know he will pass on great words of wisdom to your future children. There are many signs he loves you truly but you have to make a smart choice by knowing your man.
BY M. DIVYA SRI